Public Speaking – जनसामान्य में बोलना
Body Language + Spoken Tips
Public speaking ke dauran body language aur spoken
communication dono kaafi important hote hain. Aap jo bol rahe
hain, usse zyada zaroori hota hai ki aap kaise bol rahe hain aur kaise apne body
language ka use kar rahe hain. Yeh dono cheezein milke aapko ek confident
aur effective speaker banane mein madad karte hain.
Chaliye, hum body language aur spoken tips ke baare mein detail mein baat
karte hain.
1. Body Language Tips for Public Speaking
(Body Language ke Tips)
Body language kaafi zyada influence karta hai
aapke message ko aur aapke confidence ko bhi. Agar aap apne body movements,
facial expressions, aur gestures ko achhe se control karte hain, toh aap apne
audience ko better engage kar sakte hain.
1.1. Posture (Aapka Stand)
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Straight Posture:
Jab aap bol rahe ho, apne back ko straight rakhein.
Agar aap slouch karte hain, toh
yeh aapki confidence ko kam dikhata
hai.
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Open Stance:
Apne arms ko relaxed rakhein aur open
position mein khade ho. Dono feet ko shoulder-width
ke distance par rakhna zaroori hai. Yeh aapko grounded
aur confident banata hai.
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Don’t Cross Your Arms:
Apne arms ko cross mat karein. Yeh aapko defensive
aur closed dikhata hai.
1.2. Eye Contact (Aankhon Se Contact)
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Engaging Eye Contact:
Audience se eye contact banaye
rakhein. Yeh aapko trustworthy aur confident
dikhata hai.
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Not Staring:
Lamba stare mat karein, bas natural aur casual
glance rakhein. Har 2-3 second mein apni aankhon ko audience ke different logon
se shift karein.
1.3. Gestures (Haath Ki Harkatein)
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Hand Movements:
Apne hands ka use karein lekin zyada na karein. Natural
aur purposeful gestures ka istemal karein taaki
aapki baat ko emphasize kiya ja sake.
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Avoid Fidgeting:
Fidgeting se bachein, jaise ki apne hands ko
baar-baar pockets mein daalna ya constantly move karna. Yeh nervousness ko show
karta hai.
1.4. Facial Expressions (Chehre ke Abhivakti)
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Smile:
Apne chehre par genuine smile rakhein jab
aap koi friendly ya positive baat bol rahe ho. Yeh audience ko comfortable
banata hai aur aapko approachable dikhata hai.
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Express Emotion:
Aap jo baat kar rahe hain, uske hisaab se apne expressions ko match
karein. Agar aap koi serious topic discuss kar rahe hain, toh serious
expressions rakhein.
1.5. Movement (Harkatein aur Walking)
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Move Around the Stage:
Agar aap stage par khade hain, toh chhoti-moti movement
karein, lekin zarurat se zyada move mat karein. Yeh aapko active
aur engaging dikhata hai.
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Don’t Pace
Unnecessarily: Over-moving ya ek jagah se doosri jagah bhaagna distracting
ho sakta hai. Just a slight movement, jaise ek jagah se doosri jagah shift
hona, thoda aur zyada interest generate karta hai.
2. Spoken Tips for Public Speaking
(Spoken Tips)
Aapke spoken words ke
saath-saath, aapka tone, pace,
aur clarity bhi bahut zaroori hota hai.
2.1. Clarity (Saaf aur Spasht Bhasha)
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Clear Pronunciation:
Jab aap bol rahe ho, apni pronunciation ko dhyaan
se clear karein. Agar aap kisi complex shabd ko bol rahe hain, toh thoda slow
ho kar usse clearly pronounce karein.
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Don’t Rush:
Kabhi bhi jaldi mat boliye. Aapko
apne thoughts ko samajhdari se express karna hai, isliye slow
aur deliberate bolne ki koshish karein.
2.2. Tone (Awaaz Ka Andaz)
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Vary Your Tone:
Apni voice tone ko varied
rakhein. Agar aap ek hi pitch mein bolte rahenge, toh aapka speech boring
lag sakta hai. Jab aap koi important baat bol rahe ho, apni tone ko lower
aur serious rakhein, aur jab aap funny ya light baat
kar rahe ho, toh tone ko higher aur livelier
rakhein.
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Express Emotion Through
Tone: Jab aap apne speech mein emotion
daalte hain, toh aapki voice naturally expressive
hoti hai. Jaise, agar aap kisi exciting
cheez ke baare mein baat kar rahe hain, aapki voice mein excitement dikhegi.
2.3. Pauses (Rukna)
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Effective Pauses:
Jab aap koi important point bol rahe ho, toh pause
le kar usse emphasize karein. Yeh aapko impactful
banata hai aur audience ko bhi think
karne ka time milta hai.
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Not Too Long Pauses:
Zyada der ke pauses bhi awkward ho sakte hain,
isliye pauses ko short rakhein. Bas apne
thoughts ko collect karne ke liye thoda rukna achha hota hai.
2.4. Pace (Gati)
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Controlled Pace:
Apne pace ko controlled rakhein. Kabhi
bahut tez mat boliye, aur kabhi bahut dheere bhi nahi. Aapko apne words ko achhe
se articulate karna hota hai.
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Speeding Up for
Excitement: Jab aap kuch exciting
ya dynamic baat kar rahe ho, toh aap apne pace ko
thoda increase kar sakte hain.
Jab koi serious topic ho, toh thoda slow down
karen, taaki aapki baat properly samjhi jaye.
2.5. Engaging the Audience (Audience ko Engage Karna)
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Ask Questions:
Speech ke beech mein questions puchna, ya unko
engage karna, audience ko attentive rakhta hai.
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Example: "How many of you have ever faced
this situation?"
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Use Stories and
Examples: Audience ko apne topic se connect karne ke liye real-life
examples aur stories ka use karein.
Yeh aapko aur aapki baat ko relatable banata hai.
2.6. Confidence (Atmavishwas)
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Believe in Your Message:
Jab aap apni baat par pure confidence rakhte
hain, toh aap naturally zyada convincing lagte hain. Agar aap apne message ko
truly believe karte hain, toh aapke words naturally impactful
honge.
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Don’t Apologize for
Mistakes: Agar aap galti se kuch bhool jate hain ya mistake
karte hain, toh apni speech ko smoothly continue karein. Apologize karna aapke
confidence ko distract kar sakta hai.
Conclusion:
Public speaking mein body language aur spoken
communication dono kaafi important hote hain. Jab aap apne body
ko open aur relaxed
rakhein, aur apni voice modulation, clarity,
aur engagement ko improve karein, tab aap apni
audience ke saath zyada connected feel karenge. Practice
karna aur apne skills ko regularly improve karna aapko confident speaker banane
mein madad karega.
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